4 Reasons to Ask Before Listening to “Joe”

My oldest child is a 15-year-old boy who is about to enter 10th grade.  Of course, his school assigned him 2 books for “Summer Reading”:  Inherit the Wind & 1984.  He has read Inherit the Wind; however, even though school starts this Wednesday (yes, THAT early), he has not yet finished 1984.

When I suggested to him today that he needs to finish this book now, his comment to me was that, “Joe (not his real name) says that his Honors English teacher last year did not even quiz them on the Summer Reading” (my son is also in Honors English).  I was talking to a friend of mine this morning about this (his son is the same age as mine), and he suggested that this would be a great BLOG subject.   And he is absolutely right – because too many business owners are listening to “Joe.”  And “Joe’s” advice is often very risky.

For a business owner, “Joe” is that brother, cousin, nephew, parent, fortune-teller, or anyone else who gives you opinions about how to run your business.  Here are 4 questions to ask yourself before following “Joe’s” advice.

– Does the advice apply to what worked in the past, but may not be applicable NOW?  Just as my son’s friend was talking about what happened last year, to him individually, one time; many times the advice others give you is based on what happened to them one time, individually.   So, it might apply to your situation, but it most likely will not.

Does the advice come from an individual’s opinion, or is it based on FACTS?  “Joe” is making an assumption, but most likely has not talked to others about THEIR experiences.  Find out if the person can give you not just what they did, but how it specifically helped them.   Get numbers, percentages, and names of those involved.   Also, have others followed the same path, and what where their results?

What are the consequences to your “advisor” if the advice is wrong?  If my son decides not to read the book, and the teacher gives him a test this week, Joe does not lose points.  How many people are willing to give you advice, but will not be impacted if the advice is bad.  This is one reason why I have incorporated performance based investments in all of my programs: if what we do works, then we BOTH win.

Are you taking advice because it is good for you, or because it is self-serving?  Obviously, my son is not thrilled to be reading a book that he considers “boring.”  So, the advice to not read works for him; but only in the short run.   Is this you?  Are you spending time doing activities that you know are not highly profitable, but ARE easy?  Are you avoiding making an investment that requires a little risk, but has a big potential reward (like hiring a coach, or having a professionally designed website); because you have a fear of spending the money?

The reality is: we are constantly surrounded by people who want to give us great “advice.”   However, as I have heard it said, be sure you are getting COUNSEL and not OPINIONS.  So, before you listen to all of those people who want to tell you how to run your business, just ask yourself these few simple questions.

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  • Venetia  On August 9, 2012 at 10:26 am

    Great information!

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